Patterns of Personal Influence

If you can influence yourself you can influence others. 

If you can’t influence yourself consistently, then you’ll never be able to influence others.

Have you ever written goals?  Do you keep an action plan or prepare a ‘to do list’?  If so it usually means that you want to move forward in your life.  You may have plans; you might have visions or aspirations for your life.  Generally when you move to the planning stage it means that your goals are important enough for you to you to take action on.  However this does not always ensure success? 

To illustrate I’d like to ask you, “Have you achieved ALL the goals you've set?” or to put it another way, "Have you ever not reached a goal?"

If you've not reached a goal then I’d like to be a bit provocative and ask ‘why not?’ 

Stop right now and think why you have not achieved all your goals.  Write those reasons down now. 

OK so you have a few reasons in your mind or on paper.  I’d like you to look and see if your answers included the word ‘because’.  Because of this… or because of that….I could not reach my goal.   Once you have done this I'd invite you to tear up and throw those reasons away.  That's right turf them, shred them, bin them.  I dont even know you but I know these reasons aren't the real reasons. 

Do you remember the Wizard of Oz and the song which goes something like this, “because, because, because, because, because… because of the wonderful things he does”.  Well the because, because, because pattern is not uncommon when you are asked to justify why you have not done something.  You might know people who have a ‘because’ for everything.  You ask them why and out comes a plethora of reasons. 

Now I’d invite you to consider HOW it is that you’ve not achieved all your goals? 

Something changes when you begin to investigate HOW it is that you have not achieved something.  I’d even go so far as to suggest now that you look at HOW exactly you go about NOT achieving the things you want in your life.  Think about relationships that have not turned out as you would have liked, careers that didn’t go to plan, business plan that never took off and situations that were not what you expected.  How did your create those?  If you are thinking, "I didn't create them", join us on this seminar because your life will change just because of this.     

We all have patterns of behaviour that bring us the results we get.  What you achieve or don’t achieve comes down to your patterns.  If you are to make a pudding, the pudding will change if the ingredients change.  If your pudding is not turning out like you want it to you need to look at the ingredients you are putting into it and then how you are combining them.  It is pretty simple really but in life we as human beings have made an art form out of complicating things.  This seminar will take you back to some very simple keys to achieving and living exactly as you want to be..

In this seminar we are going to explore both the pudding you are wanting to create and the ingredients you are currently using to make it.  This will bring up some interesting insights and tools for evaluations and change.

This weekend is an in-depth view of: 

• Where you are at now in your career, personal life and in yourself. 
• How you got to where you are (what patterns you are using in your life to get the results that you are getting). 
• An exploration of your purpose in life
• How you go about build alignment to your true purpose 
• How you will move through barrier to change
• How you can manage your defensive behavioural patterns that limits your progress
• How to design a blueprint for your life.  This blueprint will be completely different to any type of plan you’ve done in the past.

The outcomes of this course are:

• Clarity of your life purpose
• Alignment to your goals
• Commitment to a new way of being
• A plan for moving forward congruently

What do I do next?

To Register         Simply email us your intention to join the training at info@becomecoaching.com

Date:                 14th & 15th July

Location:           London Victoria

Price:                 £149 + VAT (£175.07)

*Special OfferBook two places before June 21st and get two for the price of one. 

For more information please contact us by phone on +44 (0)203 00 88 901 or email info@becomecoaching.com.  All courses are open to private individuals and corporations who wish to send delegates.